Showing posts with label Peace Corps South Africa. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Peace Corps South Africa. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

A Letter to My Bougie Folks...


Dear Bougie Folks,

I am writing because surprisingly I really miss you.  No one has asked me in quite awhile what I do, where I went to school, and did I pledge.  Plus, I need a good ol fashion HBCU style spades games at a BBQ, a _____ National Conference party, or a happy hour at a chic boutique hotel in my life.  I figure I need to temporarily import you to get my fix so I am offering you the opportunity to visit South Africa.  It will only increase your bougie status to exclaim: “I am going to South Africa”…”I bought this in South Africa,” or “did you know in South Africa ______.”  Just to let you know a trip to South Africa is just a bit more than going to Essence. If you can’t make it I’ll just make sure I am home in time for _______Conference so we can catch up.

Smooches,
Meish

PS: Hipsters I really miss you too and I will meet you at that cool new restaurant for brunch soon! :0)

Thursday, March 22, 2012

My So Called "Village" Life


Countryside near Phokeng 
I arrived at my post a little over a week ago. I am posted in Phokeng, which is in the Northwest Province of South Africa and approximately 20 minutes from Rustenburg.  Phokeng is the capital of the Royal Bafokeng Nation.

The Royal Bafokeng Nation
I’ll share with you more about The Royal Bafokeng Nation (RBN) as I learn more, but here is quick background on them.  The Bafokeng trace their ancestry to the Bahurutshe and the Bakwena, which settled in this region in the late 1600s.  The Bafokeng are ruled by a kgosi (king).  Today, the RBN is comprised of 29 villages that are governed through a mix of democracy and traditional leadership.  Kgosi overseas several institutions such as The Royal Bafokeng Holdings, the Royal Bafokeng Administration, and the Royal Bafokeng Institution, that oversee everything from education to road construction within the RBN. 
Phokeng Countryside (taken from Bafokeng High)

RBN has a quite unique history.  Feeling that their land was threatened by the Boers or Afrikaans they determined early on that they needed to formally buy their land.  By the late 19th century the RBN had established themselves as a private, corporate land owner.  Platinum was then discovered on Bafokeng territory in 1924.  In fact, Bafokeng land contains some of the world’s richest deposits of platinum and chrome, as well as rare and valuable types of granite.  To my understanding RBN is the wealthiest tribe in Africa with assets worth billions of dollars.  I also just learned the RBN is the sister city to Prince Georges County, MD (the “area” where I am from) How cool is that!!!!

Phokeng
Royal Bafokeng Sports Campus 
So with that said, Phokeng is a “developed village” (not quite a village, but not yet a township). A lot of the RBN investment has taken place in Phokeng.  Phokeng has a sports palace, with a FIFA certified stadium where some of the World Cup games took place; a sports campus that has a 5 star hotel, a rehab center, a state of the art gym, and a sports academy (to groom future athletes); and a state-of the-art school, Lebone II, that goes from primary to high school.

Royal Bafokeng Sports Campus

Lebone II Outdoor Amphitheater
I am staying at a B&B that is owned by a very nice older couple.  I call them Mey (Mom, respectable way to address an older women) and TaTi (Father/respectable way to address older men).  Mey said I am the daughter she never had!  Their 3 year old grandson stays with them so I play with him and his neighborhood friends sometimes.  Here are a couple of pictures of my new home.
My B&B from a distance 
I stay on the 2nd Floor


View from the 2nd floor terrace 
Another view from the 2nd floor terrace
My bedroom
My bedroom from another view
I use the B&B service kitchen, there are no other guest so I have it to myself

I eat in the kitchen instead of the dinner room

My new sporty look
Right now I am spending my time going around and meeting people.  Got to make sure I get alignment, buy in, and support for my marketing plan (I thought corporate America was political), especially since I want to start youth clubs in the schools. The cool thing though is that Royal Bafokeng Sports (RBS) is sponsoring the Special Olympics Africa Unity Cup.  So my work is filtered through them.  So everyone I work with is involved in sports in some capacity whether it’s managing the RBN’s professional soccer team, the Platinum Stars, or coaching handball, rugby, or track and field. The NBA even has a partnership with the RBN so there are 3 American guys here starting a basketball program in the RBN.  Funny thing everyone keeps asking me what sport I do and I am like uuuuhhhhh…I was a Pom in High School and College. I actually may even work a bit with the cheerleading program the NBA is starting.  Sometimes I am like how did I end up here?  And I am still like, am I really a Peace Corps Volunteer, rotfl?


My workout equipment
Other then that I spend my spare time working out (I purchased some workout equipment and work out in the parking lot in front of my place), making jewelry, watching movies, and surfing the net. I have also had the opportunity to attend 2 Platinum Stars games.  I have quickly realized I am not a football/soccer fan, plus I have never enjoyed sitting in VIP areas at games---I like being with the people (I have to try one more game to see what it likes to sit with the vuvuzela folks).  One of my Special Olympics coworkers is from Phokeng and she introduced me to her brother.  He has been really cool as well and has taking me out a couple of times.  Just hoping to continue making friends, but I have felt at home and comfortable here since the day I moved here.  Weird considering I freaked out the first time I saw where I will be living, LOL.
Platinum Stars vs. SuperSport


--Mei   

Monday, March 12, 2012

You are speaking English, right???


I find it simply amazing that even though South Africans speak English, I still apologetically spend a lot of time asking people to repeat what they said because I couldn’t understand them through their heavy British, Afrikaans, Colored, or general South African accent.  Or there are those moments when I sit with a puzzled look, because I heard them perfectly, but have to search for contextual clues to truly get the meaning of what they said, lol.  Below are a couple of South African English words and phrases that have a different meaning in American English.  I have learned most of them through some funny and humbling moments!!!  Note: Many of the words/phrases are a product of the British influence.  So if you have visited England before many will be familiar.

South African English = American English
  • Robot = Traffic Light
  • Garage = Gas station
  • All Stars = Converse Chucks
  • Cheese Boy = Pretty Boy
  • Take away = To go
  • Chappie = Gum
  • Kit = Athletic Uniform/Jersey
  • Kettle = An electronic pitcher that heats water (for tea and coffee)
  • Reverse = Repeat, go back, or back-up (i.e. when someone is presenting and you didn’t catch what they said you would say reverse please)
  • Scone = Biscuit (I ordered some of these for afternoon tea for my office, and was quite surprised to see I ordered biscuits)
  • Biscuit = Cookie
  • Rock Cake = Scone
  • Chips = French Fries
  • Boot = Car Trunk
  • Boots = Can be boots boots but also refers to athletic shoes (in particular I’ve heard it used to refer to soccer cleats and filed hockey shoes)
  • Treckies = Tennis Shoes/Sneakers
  • Curtain raiser = Opening performance that precedes the main attracting
  • Knock off = Get off work/leave work
  • Collect you = Pick you up
  • Taxi Rank = Taxi Station
  • Lift = Elevator
  • Tomato Sauce = Ketchup
  • Brown Bread = Wheat bread
  • Shops = Stores
  • Primary school = Elementary school
  • Secondary school = Junior high/middle school
  • High school = High school
-Mei

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

First Impressions of South Africa


They say your first impression is always the most important. As any stranger in a foreign land, every interaction and every experience, along with what I have visually seen over the last three weeks is shaping my perspective of South Africa.  Although not my first time to South Africa, my perspective as a tourist is different than that of a resident.  Culturally, I have noticed two things, thus far, that I have found fascinating:  the 1) culture complexities and 2) the degree of American influence. 
Nestle Cheerios-Another explain of contradiction!

More than Meets the Eye
When I first arrived here someone told me, “South Africa may seem like Europe but if you go deeper you will realize you are still in Africa.”  They were trying to explain that even though I could enjoy all of the creature comforts of home (e.g. buying a frozen pizza at a grocery store, grabbing a burger at a fast food restaurant, clothe shopping at a multilevel mall, seeing a movie at a movie theater, etc.); I will still experience many of the challenges of living in Africa that I experienced in Benin (TBD: since I am still living in Jo’burg don’t really have a good idea of what this means yet).  This paradoxical nature, or inverse relationship, really sums up, in part, South Africa to me thus far.  I am learning that there are always two sides to the coin.  And not that this isn’t true anywhere else, but it is really apparent to me here.   Here are couple more juxtapositions I have noticed:

  • Black World vs. White World: A remnant of apartheid.  However, this doesn’t mean their society isn’t integrated. Similar to the U.S. there are different worlds that are dictated by race.  I should also mention there also is a Colored World and an Indian World.  And even within the White World there is an English World and an Afrikaans World.
  •  First World wealth vs. Third world poverty: I saw a Bugatti for the first time in Jo’burg and there are tons of Ferrari, Mercedes, Audio, etc. dealerships lining the streets of Jo’burg.  The homes in Sandton put MTV crib homes to shame (at least from what I can see, they are all behind huge walls and gates).  Miles away though people are still living in shacks made of scrap tin.  And if you get a bit further out (well a lot further out), some people are still living in traditional villages.
  •  Western culture vs. Africa culture: Self-explanatory.
  • Xhosa, Zulu, Tsaswana, Afrikaans and the other local languages vs. English: Language is important here.  It is part of your identity and history.  It denotes your tribe or community and your lineage.  English is the language of business and progress though. So I can communicate here but I feel like I will not truly understand the culture unless I learn one of the local languages. 
  •  British influence vs. American influence: Even though South Africans drive on the left side of the street, they are listening to American music---hip-hop, R&B, rock---in their cars.  They may even be driving a Ford Focus!
This just reaffirms for me to always go deeper and beyond what I see on the surface to truly understand what is going on.

They Not Only Drank the Kool-Aid, They Also Ate the Apple Pie
I am simply amazed by how much people know about American politics, celebs, and culture here.  I believe you could take any urban dwelling South African and drop them off in the States and they would be able to fluidly chitchat as a native about American pop culture.  Considering that many South Africans grew up watching American TV shows and movies, this isn’t at all that surprising. 

Today, if you have satellite TV you can watch everything from Real Housewives of Atlanta (yes I know how embarrassing) and Grey’s Anatomy to the Daily Show and Southpark.  Even with my rabbit ears TV, I can watch the Steve Harvey Show, Cold Case, Modern Family, My Cousin Earl, and the House of Payne. The Grammy’s and Whitney Houston’s funeral were even aired here. 

Needless to say, the cable stations and movie theaters are flooded with our movies.  Likewise, so are the radio waves and the nightclubs “booming” with our music.   And of course music videos can be seen on MTV!

The style of dress thus mirrors these images as well.  I am amazed to see women wearing the exact same styles as what is “in” at home.  And of course there are a slew of kids that follow hip-hop trends.  So it is normal to see a guy wearing tight jeans with a sag (he probably even has visible tats, an oversize baseball hat and a white tee) and girls in leggings or colorful tight jeans, sandals, and a tank top or an ‘80s style off the should shirt. There are even a ton of girls with Mohawks, and shaved sides, Rihanna style hair dos.  When I went out to the club, it looked like a bad rap video (like the low budget ones shown on BET "After Dark", I would be remiss if I didn’t say that I saw the same thing while living in France).  They were even “Doing the Dougie” the whole night.

I should also mention that I can buy People, Glamour, O and a slew of other American magazines at any grocery store or retail outlet that sells magazines.

As much as I have been able to chat with people about Kim Kardashian’s fake marriage, I also have been able to chat about the Republican debates.  Again, I was baffled that people were up on American politics and following our elections. Meanwhile, initially when I arrived, I couldn’t even tell you the name of the President of South Africa (don’t judge me).

I am curious to learn though with all this Americana, how are Americans perceived.  That will be a future post!

Overall, I am loving my experience thus far.  It is a great country.  I am intrigued by the wealth of diversity--people, geography, cultures, and languages, and the historical complexities.  All of which leads to tons of interesting and fun things to do! 

--Mei

Freak out Moment

Peace Corps service is characterized by emotional highs and lows. I figure if I only share with you my highs then I’m not giving you a true understanding of the experience.

So I had a freak out moment yesterday (and if ya know me can I be prone to these :0). I went out to where I will be living for a meeting. It’s a town in Africa. (It’s a TOWN in AFRICA!). After being in Jo’burg for the past two weeks (I really liked living in Africa lite), I have to mentally prepare to transition to living in a town (which by American standards really is a big village with electricity and without the mud brick houses). Plus, as we are taking a tour of the school where we will be hosting the soccer tournament (which is nestled on the side of a mountain, in the “woods”), the teacher is telling us to watch out for snakes (she has removed two from her office this year---only one of which was poisonous???) and we saw a bat on the side of a building.

All of this made me realize that I completely flipped my life upside down and started questioning why???? I was comfortable and am now completely uncomfortable. I have no clue what my future holds. I’m in a strange and foreign land. I have no car (and have to take public taxis better known in West Africa as bush taxis). I have no money. And I am completely and utterly alone (there is no corps to the Peace Corps!). I’m older now too than when I first did this, which makes me rationalize everything a bit more.

On the other side I do realize that being too comfortable, settled, and unfulfilled were my catalyst for this journey. I would sit in my cube at work numb, trying to build up the motivation to go to meetings or do my work. I felt like I lost a bit of myself every day I went to work---a glacier slowly being chiseled to an ice cube. Now, I am doing everything I wanted to do (live abroad, make a positive impact on society while doing what I love-marketing). I may not know what my future holds but I know I am walking in purpose. I spent three years being miserable in Philadelphia. I think I can spend 10-months being uncomfortable in a town in South Africa. Plus, I know this is where I am supposed to be and frequently receive confirmation of that fact!

Below is one of the songs I listen to, to give me perspective during my freak out moments.

--Mei


Monday, February 20, 2012

I live in South Africa (and I think I am a Peace Corps Volunteer)

I have been in South Africa for almost two weeks and am settled into my temporary Jo'burg life.  To catch you up on what I have been up to for the last two weeks (warning in advance this is going to be a bit long so I can include pics as everyone has requested)...

I flew from Atlanta to Jo'burg with two other Response Volunteers, Joy (Kenya 77-79) and Lorena (Togo 09-11).  Vele, a Peace Corps driver, met us at the airport and took us to Pretoria.  We stayed in 
Me, Joy, Vele, and Lorena at the OR Tambo International Airport
Pretoria (where Peace Corps South Africa is headquartered) for three days of Peace Corps training.  We immediately knew this experience was going to be different from our previous services based on our accommodations during training.  As Lorena stated, "this isn't Togo!"  ROTFL.  We stayed at the Rose 
Rose Guesthouse Backyard (yes that's a pool!)

Front View of the Rose Guesthouse
Guesthouse, a B&B in the Brooklyn area of Pretoria.

South Africa is the medical hub for Peace Corps in Africa. So if you are serving in Africa and are Medically Evacuated (you have a medical problem that can't be taken care of in your host country) you are sent to South Africa.  The Rose Guesthouse is where Medically Evacuated volunteers stay.  So we had the opportunity to meet volunteers serving in other parts of Africa during our stay there.
Enjoying Breakfast with Other Volunteers
Swear-in
With John Jacoby (Peace Corps South Africa Country Director) After Swear-in
We swore in after three days of "training" that provided us an overview of the culture and coached us on how to stay safe and healthy.  I then left Pretoria and headed to Jo'burg for three weeks of orientation with the Special Olympics.  

The outside of my Randburg "Cottage" (see the chickens)

The Living Room (I only watch 1 channel on the TV)
The Kitchen (and yes that's a microwave and the shower even has steaming hot water!!!!)

The bedroom (the decor creeps me out a bit, lol)

I have two beds so I use the other as a "dresser"

I think this chair is especially creepy :0)

So...I am now living in the Randburg area of Jo'burg in a B&B that provides temporary housing. It's conveniently located behind a shopping center with a nice grocery store (Checkers), a KFC, a Sushi restaurant, a dry cleaners, a nail salon, a hair salon, and some other shops.  

View of the Special Olympics Office from the Door
My training is taking place at the Special Olympics South Africa office which is located in the fabulously posh Sandton City Mall.  I take the Gautrain Bus to work everyday.  It takes me 20-30 mins to walk (in the HOT SUN...I have adopted the South African way of carrying an umbrella to protect myself from the sun) to the bus stop.

Last week, I had the opportunity to attend a local Special Olympics athletics (track and field) event as part of my training, which was really cool.  
Athletes Racing
Wheel Chair Athletes Race 

 
Athletes Singing the South African National Anthem 


Other than that (for the moment) my lifestyle is pretty similar to my life in the states. I go out to eat a lot with my friend Kaycee (we studied abroad at HEC together) and have met up with other people I connected with before moving out here, including a former Campbells employee.      
Sunday Brunch with Kaycee and One of Her (American) Co-workers 
The Delish Veggie Burger I Enjoyed at Brunch at Odd Cafe
Me and Kayce Enjoying dinner at Rosebank Mall
View of the Rosebank Mall from the Restaurant Terrace
On Saturday, I even treated myself to brunch at a small restaurant/caterer that is next door to me.  This place really helped me the other day too. I had to walk home in the rain.  And not only did I get drenched, but a car drove by and splashed me--soaking me from head to toe (it was like something out of a movie).  I went next door though and treated myself to a cupcake to help me feel better!!!
My "It's Only Water" Cupcake!
Restaurant/Caterer, Cupcakes, that is Next to My House
My Cupcakes Brunch (French Toast, Fried Plantains, and a Fried Egg)

Hope this gives you an understanding of what my new life is like thus far.  So far it is a very atypical Peace Corps experience, but I am not complaining.  Bring on the hot water, flush toilet, microwave, and fridge!!!  A "Posh Corps" life is ok with me!  I go to post though on March 9th so I am sure to have more interesting "adventures" to share after that!

-Mei





Sunday, February 5, 2012

My Mission (I am going to South Africa)...


Peace Corps' Motto on a Billboard

The time is finally here. I leave for South Africa tomorrow (whoop, whoop)!!!  I have a two hours flight from Washington, DC to Atlanta, GA and then a 15 hours and 20 minutes flight to Johannesburg, South Africa.  As such, I think this an appropriate time to give you an understanding of what I will be doing in South Africa.

I am going to South Africa as a Peace Corps Response Volunteer.  I originally served as a Peace Corps Volunteer in Benin, West Africa, from 2000-2002.  Peace Corps Response allows Returned Volunteers (the program actually just opened up to professionals with 10+ years of experience) to serve in professional, short-term assignments around the world.  I will be working with the Special Olympics as a Marketing and Events Manager.

The Special Olympics South Africa and Special Olympics Africa will be hosting a Regional (Africa) soccer tournament at the Royal Bafokeng Sport Palace (one of the stadiums built for the World Cup) in Rustenburg in October 2012.  The tournament will bring together inclusive teams from approximately 16 countries to showcase the skill and ability of the Special Olympics Africa athletes and provide a platform to increase awareness and support of the Special Olympics movement in South Africa and the Africa Region.  I will be responsible for successfully activating all the marketing, awareness and engagement activities for this event.

World Health Organization (W.H.O.) Card-check, Visa-check, Passport-check: I'm ready to go!

When I arrive in South Africa, I along with two other Response Volunteers will be taken to Pretoria for orientation.  Over three days (Peace Corps training is normally three months but shortened for Response Volunteers), Peace Corps will coach us on how to maintain our health and safety during our service and provide an overview of South African culture, history, and language.  We will also do administrative stuff like get our IDs and open bank accounts.  After we swear our allegiance to the U.S. we will leave for our post. 

However, instead of going directly to my post, I will spend the next two and a half weeks in Randburg (a town on the edge of Jo'burg) for Special Olympics orientation.   When I finish there I will attend a weeklong Special Olympics Africa leadership meeting in the Royal Bafokeng nation (the area where I will be living).  So about the second week of March, I will be deployed to my post and move into my temporary new home in Rustenburg.

Not sure what my internet access will be once I am country, but will reach out as soon as possible.  Wish me luck and please keep me in your prayers.

-Mei